Anonymous asked:
today i kept throwing up blood. is that normal for a bulimic?

I think I just answered this on my personal blog. It’s not really normal. It does happen sometimes, but it’s incredibly dangerous and you need to have someone look at it






Anonymous asked:
this is sort of hard to say but just recently ive been diagnosed with depression. The other night a way of me gettting a high i cut my wrist idk why but now im scared i look at it and just cry.... the only other person who knows is my bf. I didnt want him to find out but he pleaded with me to... it felt better after telling him like there was someone there that wont judge me and just to have him hold me while i cryed on his shoulder instead of my pillow felt great. What should i do nxt?

please don’t cut again. I understand the need to feel something and the need to feel real, but you need to find some way to not. You’ve only cut once, so it’ll be a little easier for you to stop, but have your boyfriend help. What I do is I draw hearts on my wrists and it reminds me that I’ve been there and it doesn’t help anything.






Anonymous asked:
i have too much attention from guys. idk why, but it freaks me out

like too many guys are giving you attention? so ask them not to, if you don’t like it!






Anonymous asked:
oh i didnt know u was a girl !

yes I am :)






Anonymous asked:
Like i really like this kid, but im scared my friends are going to make fun of me because hes younger. i like him but he thinks im joking, he has a girlfriend now but he doesnt talk to her. atleast in school he says i love you, hugs me & is so cute. what do i do?

forget your friends. Almost every guy I’ve dated is younger than me. My dad is younger than my mom. It doesn’t matter how old you are, as long as you get along.
as far as he is concerned, tell him you’re not joking. tell him you really really like him and see what he says. he’ll either say he likes you back or he doesn’t.






Anonymous asked:
My girlfriend is on her period and is being a total bitch, what should I do...

let her be a bitch for a week. it’s our week.






Anonymous asked:
I lost my best friend two weeks ago, I don't know what I have to do now... She just died and... I can't understand this. I need help, I can't stop cry and I feel like I wanna die... I lost the most important thing in my life.

oh hun :( I’m so so so sorry. And I’m sorry to tell you there’s not a lot I can do to help you get through this. I can be there for you, and I will be, but it’s gonna take a lot of time for this to settle. It’s not gonna happen overnight. It’s gonna take time and a lot of effort. You have to move on, you have to find new friends, and it’s gonna suck and it’s gonna take time, but you can do it. and I’m here for you






Anonymous asked:
My friend D. Told me she kissed my best friend B's boy friend since B & D are not friends D feels what she did was right but told me not to tell B. I want to tell B but I'm afraid she's not gonna believe me or worse not gonna be my friend. Any ideas on how I should conquer this?

oh dear. okay, well someone needs to tell B, because she doesn’t deserve to be cheated on. Even if it was just by your other friend. Chances are, if he kissed D, he might have kissed other girls too. So you need to tell D that she needs to tell B. If she doesn’t, you have a choice. who are you better friends with? personally, I think B deserves to know more than D deserves to have a secret kept. If she didn’t want people to know she shouldn’t have told anyone. But that’s for you to decidee






Anonymous asked:
Okay, Me and my boyfriend have an awesome relationship but theres this girl she wanted to be best friends with him after her and her bf broke up. We all used to hang out as a four, but it felt weird that she chose my bf out of everyone. I get jealous when i see her take pics with him and etc, before me and my bf got together he used to like her too /: but he assures me he is inlove with me and only me.. How to i get past my insecurities with her?

okay. first, don’t tell him he can’t hang out with her or anything. don’t be that girl. guys are allowed to have their friends-which-are-girls. don’t try and get in the middle of that.
you could tell him how she really makes you feel and ask that he kind of tone it down a little. I mean, you can’t tell them how they can and can’t hang out, but if he knows it makes you jealous he might kind of tone it down a little. He’s obviously with you for a reason, if he wanted to be with her he’d be with her, and you need to just remind yourself of that every time they hang out. Try to busy yourself when they hang out to. and avoid looking at things that remind you of them






Anonymous asked:
kkays i need advice. I used to have a bestfriend, and we were really close.. But she heard nasty rumours about me from others, and she now hates me. She called me a 'bitch' and stuff and posted stuff about me on Facebook. She told me she hates my attitude but i never did anything. Im still the same old me. So, i dont know whether i should just throw away our 4 years of friendship or call her. She would not listen to whatever i say and she laughs at every mistake i make... :/

I mean if it were me I’d probably try to call her and talk things through. But if she’s not gonna listen, and from what you told me it sounds like she’s being a bitch. if she was really your friend she’d try to find out the truth and she would have talked to you about it first, not just post about it on facebook and laugh at you. You don’t really need friends like her. So it depends. If you really want to keep her as a friend, you can try and call her, but be prepared for things to not work out because they might not.